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out vegetables at the grocery store.
7. Tell her you d like to see her again.
8. Ask her out, suggesting a specific day, rather than being vague pin it down!
9. Offer a few options, using what you learned about her interests already dinner is always a
good choice.
10. Set a day, tell her you can t wait to see her.
11. If the date s more than a few days off, call again a day or two before the date for a brief chat,
just to tell her that you re really looking forward to the date and that you re just calling to make
sure 8 p.m. (or whenever) is still a good time for her.
C. Boy and Girl go on Date
1. Be on time! If you re picking her up, don t be more than a couple of minutes early. If you re
meeting somewhere, try to be 10 or 15 minutes early so you can relax a bit before she comes.
2. Tell her she looks great.
3. Be a gentleman! Open doors, pull out chairs, help her off with her coat.
4. Discuss the atmosphere or décor of the place you re at.
5. Share funny stories, ask her if she has any crazy people like the ones in your story where she
works (or lives, or in her family).
6. Tell her she looks great again!
7. Ask what she d like to do next, make a few suggestions.
D. Ending the Date
1. Depending on how the date has gone, ask if she d like to come to your place for a drink or if
she d care to chat more over coffee at her place.
2. Or just tell her you d like to see her again and ask if she d like to get together next week.
3. Follow your instincts and her actions on deciding whether to try for a long-hot kiss or more!
E. Making the Second Date
1. Call within three days.
2. Ask how she s doing.
3. Tell her you had a great time the other night.
4. Say you d love to see her again.
5. Suggest some possible date activities.
6. Tell her it doesn t matter what the two of you do, you just want to get to know her better.
7. Pin down a specific day if possible.
8. Don t give up too easily if she really isn t free anytime soon.
9. Notice the signals if she s being evasive and not too talkative, it s possible she s not
interested. Just make sure she has your number and tell her to call you when she s free.
If at first you don t succeed &
Remember the old adage that goes: If at first you don t succeed, try, try again? Well, it s true.
You won t score every time you get out there on the playing field, but you stand a damn site
better chance of scoring than if you stay on the sidelines the whole game!
And keep this in mind: Some women have had bad experiences with men and have vowed to
steer clear of all humans of the male persuasion at least for a while. Or they may have had a
really bad day and not be in the mood for some flirting fun. Or they may already have a
boyfriend. So all women won t respond to your attempts to spark a flirty little fire. So what?
Don t take it personally, and don t give up. Just smile, tell her to have a nice day, and move on to
the next girl that catches your eye!
Remember, don t give up if some women are slow to warm up to your charms, and don t feel too
bad about it. There s plenty of reasons they might not take the bait of your conversation that have
nothing to do with you personally. If one s not warming up to chat, find another one. The law of
averages is in your favor!
But don t worry, many women are going to be very glad you struck up a chat! It lets them know
they are sexy when men try to chat them up. We LIKE that! A LOT! I said it before, and I ll say
it again women tend to be a little insecure. We adore being made to feel sexy, attractive and
desirable. And YOU make us feel that way when you start up a conversation. Because women
know that means you are probably interested in them. You ll probably make that woman s day if
you chat her up, pay her a compliment and ask for her number. And she might just make YOUR
day later on when she gets you alone!
Go get em, tiger!
Feel ready to chat up those lovely ladies yet? I hope so! Because women love being flirted with
and hate having empty days without a date on their calendars. But many women, even the most
beautiful ones, end up spending too many nights alone. And it s all because men don t know how
to approach them.
So don t let us women down! Don t leave us sitting there alone when we could be partaking of a
little flirting that could lead to a lot of fun for both of us! Don t leave us sitting at home watching
a movie on the couch all alone when we could be wrapped around YOU on the couch!
Starting a conversation is like knocking on a door give women a chance, and they may open
that door wide and welcome you in. But if you never knock, you ll always stay out in the cold
alone. Why do that when now you know how easy it is to start a conversation?!
What s more, we want to go on dates. We want passion. We want hot, long kisses. And oh, yes,
we want SEX! Just as much as you do! To put it simply we want MEN! So knock on the door
already, we ll let you in!
Now that you know what to say, go out there with the knowledge that most single women want
male attention just as much as you d like their attention. So get out there, you ll find women
everywhere you go. Practice your new skills. Get a few numbers. Make a few connections. Don t
take it too seriously, just have fun!
What have you got to lose? Nothing! Get out there already, women are everywhere!
OK & ready, set & TALK!
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